I wonder if the person who said that the road to hell is paved with good intentions thought a lack of intending to do right was a wiser option? I'm sure he was trying to make a point about those who mean to do things but never follow through, but dissing intention in the process is a bad move. I attend a yoga class where the instructor, at the beginning of class, encourages us to set a small intention for that day's practice. It can be anything, like focusing more on our breathing. We are going to breath anyway, right? Why focus on it? It is certainly something we do unintentionally every moment of our lives. But focusing on it, doing it with intent, gives it power.
Did you get that?
Focus + intent = power.
Okay, technically I know that power is:
Power = work (for our purposes let's say strength) over time. But hey, this isn't a physics lesson.
We often hear people say that they don't have time for things. They don't have time to read, or exercise, or spend time in prayer and meditation. Yet we all know incredibly busy people who do all these things amid their hectic schedules. How?
They intend to.
Too often we let the day unfold without any real plan. We are driven by someone else's schedule. We are manipulated by the needs of others who often need help or find themselves in dire straits because of their own lack of intention. We become slaves to the urgency of right now. Oddly enough we can still find time to watch hours of banal television programming, "like" every silly meme on Facebook, or watch one cute animal video after another on Youtube. It is a fact of life that you will find time to do the things that are important to you. The problem may be that we haven't ever sat quietly someplace and thought about what those things are. Everyone says they want sound friendships, to be more informed, to have less stress.
What are you doing about it?
Let's back up. What do you intend to do about it?
For years while I was home-schooling my children, along with all the other things that were on my daily to-do-list, there was an hour or two (depending on how busy the day was) devoted to reading. I read all the classics aloud to them, but also read a plethora of self help, biographies, and history. People often commented on the amount of books I read. How did I do it?
I intended to.
I made it a priority, cordoned off the time, and guarded it carefully. I thought it was just as important for my children to have a well read mother as one who cooked and cleaned. My children and I remember those times as being among the happiest and most memorable parts of their childhoods. So my intentions had UNintended benefits. We generally hear the Law of Unintended Consequences used in reference to negatives. Just as often though, good things beget other good things. Things we may not have thought of and some we may forever be unaware of. Our best intentions and action plans may not always bring about the positive change we want and even with "the best laid plans" our road may take unexpected twists and turns we might not have foreseen and divert our energy and focus temporarily. But not having our intentions set is almost a guaranteed fail.
What do you intend to do today?