Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Christmas Simplified: New Tradition of Giving


The last gift I gave at Christmas was cash. And what makes everyone happier than that? Well, as it turns out the answer to that question is spending money on others. Research  shows that we obtain more lasting happiness by giving money away than we do by spending it on ourselves. 

My son had a recent experience where a stranger helped him, which I refer to in the letter I included with the money. Mr. Snarky was taking a bus from Flagstaff to Phoenix to come home for Christmas. The bus broke down in the desert and after waiting 3 hours for help to arrive my son asked the driver to get his bag out for him. He began to walk down the highway pulling his luggage with his thumb out. Car after car passed him until finally, a guy in a truck pulled up and honked. It was a Native American man named Dan. He took my son all the way to the terminal. Mr. Snarky gave him 35 dollars in gas money, made his flight, and was home in time for his sister's graduation from graduate school the next day. 

 That experience sparked the idea for "Dan Money."

Now, I should probably tell you that while my husband, daughter, son-in-law, and son really liked the idea of doing this and starting a new tradition, they thought the letter I attached the money to was cheesy. 

So, dear reader, this is your cheesy warning. Here's the letter:

 This is Your DAN $$$

 You may remember that Dan is the guy who made it possible for Jared to get home for Christmas. In honor of Dan I'm instituting a new holiday tradition in which we honor this guy, who did what was probably a small thing to him but was a huge thing for Jared as he stood on the side of the highway wondering how he could get to the airport in Phoenix.

In future years when this story is told about how Dan saved Uncle Jared's, or Dad's Christmas  I'm sure the story will be laughed at and enjoyed, probably embellished to make it even better, as all good stories are. But I hope there will always be something done by our family for strangers at this time of year in honor of Dan. Who knows? one of you may be someone else's Dan before it's all over, and how cool would that be? 

The Rules

You must spend all the Dan money you receive on someone else. 

The person must be a stranger. 

You have to share the story with each other by New Year's Day. 

The Mission

That's it! You can buy someone a coffee, pick up a soldier's tab in a restaurant, feed a homeless person, or whatever you come across that needs to be done between Christmas and the start of the new year.

The Challenge

To see how much holiday good will can be spread by our little experiment and how creative you can be.

The Payoff

Studies show that giving makes us happier so this gift is about making you happier too! 

Merry Christmas! 

Okay, so maybe is is a little cheesy. Everyone seems to be looking for some special opportunity to give so the New Year's Day deadline will probably be revised. And in the future the amount of money may fluctuate depending on circumstances. I'll let you know what my family does with it. 

Has your family developed new traditions as the family changed?

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